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Self-coaching 10. What is ULTIMATE SUCCESS and how to maintain it in life and leadership

Hi there

As the genetic shift and the emerging of our new DNA success[1] blueprint gains momentum, people are growing in awareness and asking new questions. One of these questions is, ‘what is ‘ultimate success’? People, especially leaders, want to know, ‘how do we achieve 'ultimate success' and maintain it in our life, our companies, organisations, and leadership positions’?

Revisit the truth

We need to revisit the real meaning of success in order to find the truth. Only then can we find meaningful answers to these questions. The reason is that we have two sides of self with two totally different perspectives, mindsets, value systems, and definitions of success. One side holds the truth, the other side holds the lie - the delusion. We need to choose what side we are going to support in the future.

But first, what is 'ultimate success'?

Ultimate success

The word ‘ultimate’ refers to the highest or final level of success – you cannot achieve more or go any further than this - 'ultimate success’. It is the critical vital ingredient of real success.

It is the main aim of our new ladder of success. We have all this power and potential at our fingertips.

This is what we need to focus on, aim for, and where we all need to end up – eventually. Not only is ultimate success definitive and decisive, but it is also critical to, not only our personal progress but also to the survival of humanity. Therefore, it is of utmost importance.

The main aim of this article is to bring clarity to what we are aiming for when we speak about 'ultimate success'. However, we first need to be clear on who is the creator of this level of success.

The authentic self and ultimate success

In previous articles, we found that we have an original DNA blueprint that holds the keys to all our health, wealth, happiness, success, and prosperity. This is our real-me, best version, authentic self aka our soul self, higher self, enlightened self, and/or spiritual, universal self.

It means that we already have everything we want and need to live a happy fulfilling life, encoded as our original DNA barcode. Here, success is all about connecting to, accessing, and utilising all this power and potential. In the process, we become fully functional and live the quality of life we were created for. We already have the microchip and can co-create with the universe. We can even create miracles. This is the ideal. This is the truth. This is our aim in the end. This is 'ultimate success'.

Only the authentic self can achieve ‘ultimate success.’ The authentic self is our miracle has a Miracle Mind[2]. Why settle for less?

  • The authentic self and success

Real, authentic success is all about becoming fully functioning while creating a quality life that benefits all. Here we live from the inside out. Functioning and creating are the must-have tools and skills to get to the level of ultimate success.

  • Few have reached this level

Unfortunately, currently, very few people have the insight, mindset, skills, tools, and level of maturity to attain this level of functioning. The reason is – the shadow ego-self has got in the way.

The shadow ego-self and its perception of success

The truth is that we, that is each one of us, and we, as humanity, became disconnected right down to a universal and DNA level. Not only did we disconnect from the DNA success-blueprint, but we, that is also you and me personally, and we as humanity, created a delusional self, the shadow ego-self. The shadow ego-self with its distorted mindset, created its own world, with its own information that are delusional lies, misinformation, values, and its own standards, rules, and laws. It is a make-believe world that many people think is real.

  • The definition of success of the shadow ego-self

The definition of success of the shadow ego-self is to acquire possessions, positions, and accolades in the eyes of others. Shadow ego-dwellers live from the outside - in. Their major power tools include; struggle, striving, pushing, pulling, intimidation, manipulation, aggression, and frustration. Lies, cheating, stealing, corruption, abuse, and violence in all its forms, are also included.

This inevitably leads to destruction and implosion. Unfortunately, the shadow ego-self will not let go of its ill-gained power-position and will put up a fight to maintain its control.

  • Constant battle

A constant internal and external battle is going on between the shadow ego-self and the authentic self. This spills over to external circumstances. The result is conflict, crime, pollution, poverty, negativity, destruction, and decay. Many people are addicted to this negativity and will even sabotage every and any alternative idea and solution to secure their feeding ground of negativity. Unfortunately, many of these people will stay behind as the rest of humanity makes the leap to authenticity.

  • Anxiety and lack mentality

Part of the shadow ego-self’s perception of success is lack. There is never enough, nothing is ever right, good, or perfect. There is no arrival point. The struggle continues as the shadow ego-self works harder, strives more, fights for a place, stacks up resources, stores up revenue – just in case. 'just in case' becomes a life task. Anxiety and the fear, of not having enough while anticipating disaster, replace common sense and mature judgment, planning, and provision. Anxiety and fear cause blockages. The shadow ego-self is therefore blind to new opportunities and the abundant life we live in.

The challenge is to learn how to coach ourselves while developing new power skills and tools, to overcome this destructive force.

Wake-up calls

Now, there an awakening is taking place. The COVID pandemic is only one of our many wake-up calls. There are many other, triggers, wake-up calls, signs, and signals ringing out loud and clear. And no, not all wake-up calls need to be painful.

Unfortunately, when we ignore one wake-up call, it becomes louder, clearer, and sometimes even painful. It is not until the pain becomes unbearable, that many people then change. An old colleague of mine always said, 'only fools, suffer.' The question is, Why suffer?

These articles are meant to be part of the new call to action and it is all part of the 'universal awareness campaign'. The genetic clock is ticking. It is time!

Clock genes

In a previous article, we focussed on our clock genes that trigger certain reactions, and processes, at different times. This not only takes place within a person like you and me, but it also reverberates throughout humanity, leaving no one untouched. This is Epigenetics.


Epigenetics means that our DNA blueprint expression can be changed by changing our mental, emotional, moral/spiritual programming and values.[9]. Once we change our own programming, it spills over to others as well. We cab can influence the course of events on a DNA level, by starting with ourselves, just like one little fish can change the direction of the whole school of fish.

A new genetic pool

At the same time, as we join a new group, a new tribe, of committed solution-seekers, problem-solvers, pathfinders, and mapmakers. We can pick up on the new vibe and it rubs off on others and we change as well. Not only is a genetic shift taking place, but a whole new genetic pool is emerging. The more conscious, mindful, and evolved we become, the more we will experience ultimate success.

Ultimate success – creating miracles

So, a summary of the answers to the questions, ‘what is ultimate success and how do we obtain and maintain it in our lives and even leadership positions?’

Success is all about becoming fully functional. This means we need to grow in our awareness that we already have everything we want and need. There is no lack. The ultimate level of human functioning is the ability to create flow.

We already have the ability to co-create miracles with Creation. This is our natural state. It is who we are and how we were created to function. All is already encoded as our original DNA success-blueprint.